Using Social Media To Get Social In Person

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This new social media age has made friendships and dating more and more digital. The “social” aspect of being social is quickly diminishing. Don’t get me wrong I love my technology and apps as you know – but face-to-face communication shouldn’t go out of style. And this is coming from a person who loves alone time. Friendships are so important for your mind, body and soul. Here’s just a few benefits:

1. Great support system: Having friends at your side means you always have someone to lean on. In good times and bad you have someone there for you.

2. Happiness: Good friends equal good company. What is better then having a BFF to gossip with, watch chick flicks, or share a bottle of wine over some laughs? Friends can brighten your day and just make you happier.

3. Good for Your Health: Many studies have shown that having close friends or relationships can help your cardiovascular health and lower levels of cortisol (stress hormones). Check out more health benefits here

Now I’m not saying to throw away social media – in fact I can give you the best of both worlds! Here are a few social media sites that actually get you to be social outside of online but before looking at them, lets talk about how to build social platforms up, you can actually build them up using professionals such as a social media accounts manager. They will help you by growing your instagram for instance, and this will bring people to your site by using relevant hashtags, putting up snappy captions and taking amazing photographs, of course this is just the basics of social media marketing and they are there to help with all of the complicated stuff! There are so many interesting sites to look at…

Girlfriend Circles: This site connects like-minded local women with one another to create friendships. This is great for people who have just moved into an area, or are just looking for some girlfriends to get coffee and lunch with! You can search through member profiles and join “connecting circles.” They also post scheduled events to meet up with other women.

Tawify: Online dating can be more social too! This site is like Millionaire Matchmaker but without the “millions”. The new online dating site allows you to skip out on all the profile searching and has a “personal concierge” do all the work for you! Once you sign up, you fill out a short questionnaire and they will set you up with your dating agent who you meet in person. Your agent will then find your best matches and set up your dates for you. This is a cool spin on the typical dating site because the agent will be able to get to know you and find the perfect person for you.

Meetup: This is where I first started my “Lists and Libations” group. A group for list lovers who meet at bars in NYC and talk all things productivity. You really can find a group for any interest on this site. From cooking buffs to book lovers — you’ll find “your people” and be able to meetup off line.

How do you think you’d benefit from having more friends and actually meeting up in person more often?

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  1. Henry Motyka
    Henry Motyka says:

    Thanks for a great post.

    I too believe in face to face networking. But I find that I have so many fantastic stories about people I have met on Twitter that when I network face to face, they become the best networking currency. People’s jaws literally drop when I tell them my online networking stories. So it really works both ways. But you really can do so much more in face to face networking because you don’t have the space constraints that social media often has.

    Another thing that people don’t realize is that almost every interaction you have during the day can be turned into a networking event. I spend most days looking for my next consulting assignment working in a local Starbucks. It is almost Incredible who you can meet locally and connect with.

    So everyone should get out there and talk.

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    • Paula Rizzo
      Paula Rizzo says:

      Thanks for your comment. How interesting – I think you are right – there is room for both in person and online networking but we often forget that!

      Good tip that every interaction could lead to a networking opportunity!

      Thanks for sharing!

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