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What’s Your Legacy Work?

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What comes to mind when someone says the word “legacy”? 

For many people, it’s probably material things, like clothes, jewelry, or even money. Or some people might think about kids or family. And that’s all true. But I think there’s a lot more to it than that. 

This has been on my mind ever since my best friend Nicole Feldman died in October 2025. She was 46 years old. 

Nicole fought various cancers for more than five years. She beat each one time and again. Even the doctors were stunned. Until she couldn’t anymore. She battled breast (2020), cervical (2022), pancreatic (2023), and finally metastasized pancreatic cancer to the abdominal wall (2024 – 2025). 

I was able to be there at the very end with her and her husband. She was hurting and struggling but we still managed to have fun in between. We captured some “cotton candy moments” that were so sweet and fleeted too quickly.

In the time since Nicole died, I’ve been reflecting on her legacy. What she left behind was how she made people feel. Those lessons are a bigger legacy than anyone could ever imagine. 

That’s what got me thinking about how we can all do “legacy work” right now. What are the ideas, feelings or sentiments you’ll leave behind? And what are you doing right now to build that positive legacy?

Nicole always taught me to take the trip. Make the call. Do the thing. And she’s right. You never know what tomorrow will bring. Now is the time to do your legacy work. 

Before Nicole died, I asked her how I would know she’s visiting me. She said she’ll come back as a butterfly. And wouldn’t you believe it…I see them everywhere! I know she’s with me. I feel her presence every day no matter where I am or what I’m doing. I still joke with her in my mind and smile when I see something she would have loved. The connection is still there in how I live my life every day – whether it’s how I pack my bag when I go on vacation (she was a master packer! And even wrote about it in my first book Listful Thinking,) or always reading the fortune in a fortune cookie. 

Nicole taught me so much about how to take advantage of every moment and spend it with the people you love. In honor of her, I want to share some of the wisdom Nicole lived by. 

Live large! Nicole planned tons of corporate events in Las Vegas and spent more time there than anywhere else. I used to call her “Mrs. Las Vegas”! There was a little bit of Vegas in everything she did. A special something to make it memorable. In 2024 she got us tickets to a concert at the Sphere and then surprised us with a helicopter ride INTO the Grand Canyon. It was on her bucket list. It was not on mine. I was terrified.  Then, there was prosecco waiting in the Grand Canyon somehow. Nicole always knew to play to her audience! 

Squeeze every moment out of life. She lived this way even before she knew she was dying. We traveled all over the world and she and I would create itineraries together. She’d always pack in just one more thing that I often tried to remove for timing or something. And in the end it was always a highlight. Like the time I got spit on by an alpaca!  That was not on my itinerary. 

You’ll never regret doing something nice. She always said this and meant it. When talking to her friends and family I heard so many stories about Nicole sending a gift for no reason at all. It sometimes came in the form of a pizza stone, heating pad or even laundry detergent that you just “had to try!” But whatever the gift, big or small, it came with lots of love. 

Encouragement is a superpower – become a mentor. I can still hear her encouraging me for every move in my career and life. “You got this! You can do it! You’ll be great!” Before she died, we asked anyone who wanted to share a video message for us to show her. We got lots of them and the common theme was thank you. Thank you for believing in me. Thank you for showing me I could do it. Thank you for nurturing me. 

People will enter your life for a reason, a season or lifetime. Another Nicoleism. And so true. I remind myself of this all the time. There are people who will surprise you in your life for good and for bad that is for sure. But when you look at it in Nicole’s way it makes it much more impactful and sometimes less painful. 

People often think of legacy as being something tangible — a big goal to work towards. But legacy is often the little things that remain after we’re gone. Legacy work begins now, in the way we live day to day and how we treat the people around us.

I invite you to think about your legacy this way. What are you doing now that will continue to have a positive impact far into the future?

I’d like to leave you with a poem I wrote while I was with Nicole in her last few weeks. I don’t think I’ve ever written a poem before this! Maybe for a class project or something but it’s not my usual thing. I shared it with her and I felt compelled to do it and to remember everything about her. 

Live Forever

In every marg I mix

Rosé I sip

Charcuterie board I eat

 

Rick Steves episode I watch

Plane surface I wipe

Eminem song I hear

 

Wrinkle I iron (in a panic)

Packing cube I fill

True crime I solve

 

Fitted sheet I fold

Dirty Dancing move I make

Eataly I visit

 

Trip I plan

Goat I try to hug

Perfect avocado I open

 

Cotton candy moment I savor

Butterfly I admire

And pair of little old ladies I see

 

I know you’re here with me

Always.

 

For Nicole — with love, Paula

September 27, 2025

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How to Make the Most of Travel Points

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I love traveling — visiting new places is fun, inspiring, and keeps me curious. But it can also be expensive. That’s where travel points and reward systems come in. They can seem complicated, but they’re also an excellent tool for maximizing your time and money. 

Whether you’re a frequent flier or an occasional vacationer, learning how to maximize your travel points can enhance your travel experience — and keep costs down!

Here’s how to get the most out of your travel rewards.

1. Understand the different types of travel points.

Travel points generally come from two main sources: airline loyalty programs and credit card rewards. Here’s what to know about each type:

Airline miles: These are earned by flying with specific airlines or their partners. Each airline has its own program, so understand how many miles you need for a free flight and how to accumulate them.

Credit card points: Many credit cards offer points for purchases. These can often be transferred to airline and hotel loyalty programs, giving you more flexibility in how you use them.

2. Choose the right credit card.

Selecting the right credit card is crucial for maximizing your points. Look for cards that offer one or all of these benefits:

Sign-up bonuses: Many cards provide substantial bonuses if you meet a spending threshold within the first few months.

Bonus categories: Some cards offer higher points on specific categories like travel, dining, or groceries. Choose a card that aligns with your spending habits.Also it’s smart to know which cards will get you the most points for your purchases. I love The Points Guy app because you can put your credit cards in there and when you’re out making a purchase it will tell you which card to use to optimize your purchase! 

No foreign transaction fees: This is especially important for international travel, allowing you to use your card abroad without additional charges.

WHICH CARD DO YOU USE? 

I get this question a lot so I’m going to list out my favorites here. I’ve tried a bunch through the years and these are the ones that have consistently allowed me to travel in the Delta One cabin (my favorite!) get lounge access, free access to Clear and Global Entry, and so much more! I’m sharing affiliate links for these cards so if you sign up using one of these links, I may get bonus points or miles but you will too! 

Delta Skymiles Platinum American Express: I’ve been using this card for years and I love it because I love to fly Delta. If you are dedicated to one airline and in a city that it services often then I think it’s a good idea to go all in. However, other cards have more flexibility if you want to transfer your points/miles elsewhere. If you apply for an American Express Card with this link, you could earn a welcome bonus and I could too. Terms Apply. 

Chase Sapphire Preferred – This is a great card for travelers and you’re able to accumulate Chase Ultimate Reward points. The nice thing about these points is that you can transfer them to any of the partner companies that use them so you don’t have to use all your points with Chase. It’s the most versatile way to use points. There’s a Limited-time offer – $300 Chase Travel℠ credit + 60,000 bonus points with Chase Sapphire Preferred. I can be rewarded if you apply here and are approved for the card. 

Bilt Mastercard: This is a new one for me and I got it because once we sold our apartment in New York City we started renting again. And usually when you pay rent with a credit card you have to pay a fee. That’s always difficult when you’re trying to get points for a credit card reward program but Bilt has figured out a way around it! There are no fees when you pay your rent using the card. Great, right? Yep! Use this link to sign up and you may get a bonus and I could too! 

Delta Reserve Business American Express Card: I’ve had this card for years as well and it’s one of my favorites. I got it as soon as I started my own business and I’ve never regretted it. Although it does come with an annual fee it’s worth it to me because of all the benefits that I get with it. Apply for an American Express Card with this link and you could earn a welcome bonus and so could I!  Terms Apply. 

Chase Ink Business Preferred Card: I use this one for my business and it also feeds into my Chase Ultimate Rewards bank so I can transfer the points to other airlines, hotel chains and more. Earn 90,000 bonus points with the Ink Business Preferred® card or up to $1,000 bonus cash back with the Ink Business Premier® card, Ink Business Unlimited® card or Ink Business Cash® card. I can be rewarded if you apply here and are approved for the card.

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3. Consider your spending habits. 

To maximize your potential points, think about your spending habits. Everyone is different and you want to consider what actually makes the most sense. But really, you don’t want to spend any more money than you normally would. You just want to optimize your spending. 

Everyday spending: Use your travel rewards credit card for everyday purchases to accumulate points. Just be sure to pay off your balance each month to avoid interest.

Bonus promotions: Stay updated on promotions from airlines and credit card companies that offer bonus points for specific purchases or during certain periods.

Shopping portals: Many airlines and credit cards have online shopping portals that offer extra points for purchases made through them.

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4. Leverage partner networks.

Most airlines and hotel chains have partnerships with other companies, allowing you to earn and redeem points more effectively:

Hotel stays: If you have airline miles, check if you can transfer them to a hotel loyalty program for points. This can be especially useful during travel.

Car rentals and dining: Earn points by booking car rentals or dining at participating restaurants that are part of your airline or hotel loyalty program.

5. Be strategic with redeeming points.

Redeeming points wisely can significantly enhance their value. Here are some factors to consider:

Book early: Award availability can be limited, especially for popular routes. Booking early can help you secure the best deals.

Avoid blackout dates: Be aware of blackout dates and peak travel seasons. Flexibility can lead to better redemption options.

Consider off-peak travel: Traveling during off-peak times often requires fewer points, allowing you to stretch your rewards further.

6. Stay informed to get more out of loyalty programs.

It can be easy to skip sign-ups for loyalty programs — who needs more emails in their inbox? — but they might lead to serious savings!

Newsletters and alerts: Sign up for newsletters from airlines and credit card companies to stay updated on promotions and changes to their rewards programs. I recommend reading The Points Guy’s Newsletter and also took a free online course through 10xTravel that I found really helpful. 

Apps and tools: Download apps that track your points (usually offered by the airline or bank). They might offer reminders for when to book flights or tools to redeem rewards. I love TripIt because it’s an organized way to keep track of not only your travel itineraries but also your points and miles. I have TripIt Pro and think it’s worth the yearly fee. The app alerts me of changes to my itinerary often before the airline does. 

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7. Know when to use points versus cash.

Sometimes, using cash might be more beneficial than redeeming points:

Value of points: Calculate the cash value of your points. If the redemption value is less than what you’d pay in cash, consider saving your points for a better opportunity.

Special promotions: Occasionally, airlines or hotels offer discounted rates that might be lower than the points required for redemption, making cash a better choice.

Maximizing travel points requires strategic planning and a bit of research. By understanding your earning potential, choosing the right credit card, and being strategic about redemption, you can travel more for less. 

Happy travels!

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5 Ways to Pack Smarter

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In 2022, airlines made a record $6.8B on baggage fees. That’s money could have been spent on a nice meal or a souvenir!

I recently spoke with Tamsen Fadal and Arrianee LeBeau on WPIX11 News in New York City to share my top five tops to pack smarter (and lighter).

Here are five ways to pack smarter:

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More Productive Business Trips

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I love traveling. For vacations AND for business. But business trips take extra preparation and planning, which means…

More Lists!

I know all about this from traveling to launch events for my books Listful Living and Listful Thinking. And from speaking engagements, like LinkedIn Talent Connect 2022.

Here are five travel lists you can use to be more organized and productive on your next business trip. I talked all about them on a recent episode of Inside Scoop here.

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Productivity Tips from Around the World

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I love to travel. I’m constantly looking for new places to go and new experiences to have.

I love to immerse myself in different cultures: learning about the food and how people live and…their productivity and wellness techniques!

Here are a few of my favorite techniques from around the world.

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